Non­fic­tion

The Pessimist’s Son: A Holo­caust Mem­oir of Hope

Alexan­der Kimel

Mar­tin Kimel

  • Review

By

Amy Gar­cia

– October 3, 2025

The Pessimist’s Son is a deeply mov­ing and per­son­al account of Jew­ish life in Poland before, dur­ing, and after the Holo­caust. Alexan­der and Eva both grew up in Poland, but their pre­war child­hoods and the ways in which they man­aged to sur­vive the Holo­caust were vast­ly dif­fer­ent. By telling both of their sto­ries, their son, Mar­tin Kimel, pro­vides the read­er with an under­stand­ing of the range of Jews’ expe­ri­ences under the most hor­rif­ic and dif­fi­cult of circumstances.

The first half of the book incor­po­rates a mem­oir that Alexan­der wrote before he passed away. Alexander’s mem­o­ries affec­tive­ly detail what life was like before the war in a shtetl, where oppor­tu­ni­ties for Jews were scarce and Poles, Ukraini­ans, and Jews coex­ist­ed in ​“hate­ful har­mo­ny.” As war breaks out in Sep­tem­ber 1939, Alexan­der offers grip­ping tes­ti­mo­ny of how his fam­i­ly endured when the Rus­sians took over, and then, under Ger­man rule, over the course of three sep­a­rate liq­ui­da­tions. We wit­ness how des­per­ate sit­u­a­tions led to incred­i­ble moments of inge­nu­ity that helped Alexander’s fam­i­ly survive. 

What tru­ly sets this book apart, though, are Martin’s well-researched, thought­ful notes at the end of each chap­ter of his father’s sto­ry. Through these notes, Mar­tin offers a unique per­spec­tive on his father’s expe­ri­ence and also pro­vides read­ers with broad­er his­tor­i­cal con­text. Martin’s notes not only enhance and sup­ple­ment Alexander’s sto­ry, but also help the read­er to ful­ly grasp the bru­tal­i­ty Alexan­der and oth­er Jews in Poland expe­ri­enced through­out the Holocaust.

The sec­ond half of the book is ded­i­cat­ed to the sto­ry of Martin’s moth­er, Eva, and to Alexander’s and Eva’s expe­ri­ences after the war. Eva’s sto­ry presents yet anoth­er har­row­ing account of sur­vival against all odds. Martin’s par­ents met in Poland after the war, where con­tin­ued and ram­pant anti­semitism led to pogroms. Like many oth­er Pol­ish Jews, Martin’s par­ents fled the coun­try, mov­ing to Israel and, ulti­mate­ly, the Unit­ed States. 

A Pessimist’s Son is a must-read for any­one seek­ing a per­son­al, cross-gen­er­a­tional, deeply researched, and mov­ing account of what Pol­ish Jews faced in this time and place.

Amy Gar­cia is a docent and edu­ca­tor at the Holo­caust Memo­r­i­al and Tol­er­ance Cen­ter locat­ed in Glen Cove, New York. She enjoys read­ing both fic­tion and non-fic­tion focused on World War II and the Holocaust.